JUST KEEPING IT REAL

Hello my friends. How are you today? Well today I just wanna talk about keeping it real. I feel sorry for those people out there whom we try to help but they themselves just can't help themselves. We try to help them and this this what we get? They act as if they have done nothing wrong and the people who try to help them are the ones to blame. Oh my gosh please!! Why can't you just admit it? Admit that you are wrong? Just tell everybody the truth instead of blaming other people for your own mistakes. Stop acting like you don't have any problems but in reality you do! Owing people money here and there and act as if you don't? Showing off your expensive cars and other expensive things that you have when in fact you are penny  less. Just keep it real! Stop showing off! I regret ever knowing people like this. I regretted ever helping this kinda people. Not thankful at all and does not deserve my forgiveness. Till the day I die, I will not Halalkan whatever you owe me and my other friends.

Thank you very much.

Are you an Option??

Hello friends! We meet again for another episode of My LIFE my STORY. Well today I came across this one twit by the notebook. It says "If u spend too much time holding onto someone who treats you like an option, you'll miss out on finding the one who will put you as a priority". After reading this I realized, that I shouldn't be wasting my time for any guy that treats me like an option but in the other hand I shouldn't also be looking for someone like a desperate woman. It usually will come to us if we wait patiently. When we least expected it, what we have always wanted just comes along and at that time we are their PRIORITY. So just a little bit of advice, if you feel that he is treating you like a freakin' option, just freakin' move on woman! Make new friends and don't wait like a stupid idiot. He might just be the guy who has been right next to you all this time. You never know. So turn the table around and make him the OPTION. This is true. Try it and you'll find happiness. Till we meet again. Take care my friends. I love you always.

I AM SO IN CLOUD 9 *DREAMY*

good evening my friends! I am just so in cloud 9 last week and this week. There's this guy who seems like a very shy guy, very good looking, and is doing very well in his career. He is actually my best friend's brother in law to be. I often come over to his house in Puchong and also sometimes sleep over there and go out sometimes with his mother and sister. I have become very close to his family especially his mother. He is actually working for a Food and Beverage company and is based in Sabah. He is seldom at home here in Puchong but every time I stayed over he will definitely stay up just to have a conversation with me. Even though he has an early flight the next morning he would still stay up. Ain't that cute? He uses our Product Dyrell so I even have to make Dyrell for him. Hehehe. He is so manja and so cute.

Yesterday, he just came back from Shanghai for a business trip, he gave me a very nice bag as a gift. I was kinda surprised to get the bag. He gave his mom 2 chiffon dresses and gave us each a bag. This is how the bag looks like. I love it soo much.



He is leaving back to Sabah tomorrow, I am so gonna miss him but he's coming back on the 25th May 2011 for the wedding. can't wait to see him again.

More stories coming soon. So stay tuned ya'll!!

My LIFE My STORY....Where it Started: Just when I thought it was because of me....

My LIFE My STORY....Where it Started: Just when I thought it was because of me....: "Hello my friends, Just something to share. My previous blog, I talked about how my life with him started and how it ended. Well I just foun..."

Just when I thought it was because of me....

Hello my friends, Just something to share.

My previous blog, I talked about how my life with him started and how it ended. Well I just found out that the reasons that he has told me and that he has told my friends was all actually bullshit. That it was because of me being older than him, my attitudes that he doesn't like and etc, etc.....

Well my friends, there is a 3rd person. I just found out! A little bird told me! My gosh, after hearing that I am so glad that I am not with him anymore. He is just using that reason so that he could make it look as if it was all my mistakes, my wrong doings but in actual fact it's just to cover up the sh*t that he did behind my back. These kinda people are very dangerous. They are good at hiding their feelings, reactions, their betrayal, their cheating etc etc. You can't even notice that he is doing all those things. Now I know. It doesn't mean he loves you when he says he does, it doesn't mean he cares for you when he wants to accompany you to go somewhere in the middle of the night, it doesn't mean he wants to be with you when he is always with you, It doesn't mean he's not lying when even though you think he's not. He might be guys. I have gone through this and it's so pathetic. I feel so stupid that I didn't see this. I think because I was blinded by the love, caring and affections that I really thought that it was true and sincere!

Learned my lesson here. Someone told me that the girl wears a Hijjab, not that tall, not too thin and stays somewhere in KL area. I bid good luck to this girl, Although I think she is unlucky to be with him and to even think of having a relationship with this kinda person. Maybe one day he might just do it to you too! haven't you thought about that in the first place? What goes around comes around. Qada' and Qadar. You let him do it to me, and he will do it to you. Guys don't change just like that. Are you that naive? He got bored of me and is looking for his next victim. Can't you see that?

This is just me writing out of anger or maybe there is truth behind all this, but there is no such thing if you love that person you will leave them for their own good because you will find a way to make sure things work between the both of you even the biggest barrier can be overcome. You said that to me in your PM, but I don't believe you because I know you so well. We think alike remember?? Unless if it was because of another girl, that is a probability. You don't have the balls to admit it cause you don't want to blamed as the a-hole here right? You want people to think that you are the victim here and that you are being in a mentally abused relationship. That just ain't right. You say that to me in your PM that if it was because of the 3rd person I would have known by now. That is exactly my point, you are not that stupid to show or admit it now because you want people to think that you are innocent, but we shall see soon. We shall see the truth behind this act of yours. For how long are you going to do this? Do you think that it is good to do this? 

How many more hearts are going to be broken and shattered into pieces by you?  You are so good with words, even your charms make people fall for you. 

I just noticed something, there was this one time when you went to digital mall with your friend, that was actually her that you went to see right? When I was looking for you at digital mall, u said that you were at this floor but actually you're not because you were trying to get away from getting caught. When you picked up my phone call and couldn't call me the sweet name you always call me, you said you were with your brother, he helped to bring the stuff to KL. Wasn't him was it? You know that the only person you can't lie to is me right? I can see right through you. I even caught you lie about the person you were on the phone with. WTF. I had the feeling it wasn't your brother and I was right. 

The moral of the story is, do not underestimate a woman's intuition because it is usually 99.9% right and to all my friends don't just fall for someone so easily, get to know them well, check out their background and the most IMPORTANT thing is love yourself the most. Don't give love and trust to that someone 100% but just enough to not get hurt in the end. 

Thank you and hope you enjoyed this :)

My LIFE My STORY....Where it Started: I DON'T NEED A MAN TO MAKE ME HAPPY

My LIFE My STORY....Where it Started: I DON'T NEED A MAN TO MAKE ME HAPPY: "Ladies, in actual fact you don't really need a man to make you happy. when you are single you stay happy. nothing that you need to think abo..."

I DON'T NEED A MAN TO MAKE ME HAPPY

Ladies, in actual fact you don't really need a man to make you happy. when you are single you stay happy. nothing that you need to think about. you're free. you can do anything you want. do anything you like. you don't need to think on how to make them happy or to care for their heart. take care of your own heart and you will be fine.

I see you looking at me
Like I got something for you
And the way that you stare
Don't you dare
'Cause I'm not about to
Just give it on up to you
'Cause there are some things I won't do
And I'm not afraid to tell you
I don't ever want to leave you confused

The more you try
The less I bite
And I don't have to think it through
You know if I'm into you

I don't need a man to make it happen
I get off being free
I don't need a man to make me feel good
I get off doing my thing
I don't need a ring around my finger
To make me feel complete
So let me break it down
I can get off when you ain't around
Oh!

You know I got my own life
And I bought everything that's in it
So if you want to be with me
It ain't all about the bling you bringing
I want a love that's for real
And without that then no deal
And baby I don't need a hand
If it only wants to grab one thing

The more you try
The less I bite
And I don't have to think it through
You know if I'm feeling you

I don't need a man to make it happen

I get off being free
I don't need a man to make me feel good
I get off doing my thing
I don't need a ring around my finger
To make me feel complete
So let me break it down
I can get off when you ain't around

Let it go
Let it go
Let it go
Let it go

I don't need a
I don't need a man, I don't
I don't need a man
I'll get me through
'Cause I know I'm fine
I feel brand new

I don't need a
I don't need a man, I don't
I don't need a man
I'll make it through
'Cause I know I'm fine
Without you!

I don't need a man to make it happen
I get off being free
I don't need a man to make me feel good
I get off doing my thing
I don't need a ring around my finger
To make me feel complete
So let me break it down
I can get off when you ain't around
Oh!

I don't need a man (I'm over you)
I don't need a man (I'm over you)
I don't need a man
(I'm without you)
(I'm over you)

I don't need a man
I don't need a man
I don't need a man